fix: don't warn about CRI update on cluster create

[jackfrancis]

Reason for Change:

This PR changes the CRI update warning in docker config scenarios so that it only logs on scale or upgrade, matching the log implementation of the containerd flow.

Issue Fixed:

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• adds unit tests
• tested upgrade from previous version

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