update to meshkernel 4.1.0

[veenstrajelmer]

Todo:

• fix for contacts_get in meshkernel: contacts_get raises MeshKernelError in meshkernel 4.0.1 MeshKernelPy#142
• bump meshkernel to ^4.0.2 HYDROLIB-core#594
• Add testcase for refine_basegrid #757
• mk 4.0.2 refinement up side down MeshKernelPy#145
• bump meshkernel to ^4.1.0 HYDROLIB-core#609
• release hydrolib-core
• also update modelbuilder notebook and modelbuilder example script and meshkernel example scripts
• remove .astype("float") from dfmt.refine_basegrid() to make 4.0.2 work (supports multiple dtypes). Also update test_meshkernel_refine_basegrid(). Also update preprocess_meshkernel_creategrid.py
• update pyproject.toml (update hydrolib-core and meshkernel versions)