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1
Your True Home
YOUR TRUE HOME is in the here and the now. It is not limited by
time, space, nationality, or race. Your true home is not an
abstract idea; it is something you can touch and live in every
moment. With mindfulness and concentration, the energies of
the Buddha, you can find your true home in the full relaxation
of your mind and body in the present moment.
2
One Hundred Percent
BE THERE TRULY. Be there with one hundred percent of yourself. In every
moment of your daily life. That is the essence of true Buddhist
meditation. Each of us knows that we can do that, so let us
train to live each moment of our daily life deeply. That is why I
like to define mindfulness as the energy that helps us to be
there 100 percent. It is the energy of your true presence.
3
Miracles
AROUND US, LIFE bursts forth with miracles-a glass of water, a
ray of sunshine, a leaf, a caterpillar, a flower, laughter,
raindrops. If you live in awareness, it is easy to see miracles
everywhere. Each human being is a multiplicity of miracles.
Eyes that see thousands of colors, shapes, and forms; ears that
hear a bee flying or a thunderclap; a brain that ponders a speck
of dust as easily as the entire cosmos; a heart that beats in
rhythm with the heartbeat of all beings. When we are tired and
feel discouraged by life's daily struggles, we may not notice
these miracles, but they are always there.
4
Ambassador of the Cosmos
WHEN I HOLD A piece of bread, I look at it, and sometimes I smile
at it. The piece of bread is an ambassador of the cosmos
offering nourishment and support. Looking deeply into the
piece of bread, I see the sunshine, the clouds, the great earth.
Without the sunshine, no wheat can grow. Without the clouds,
there is no rain for the wheat to grow. Without the great earth,
nothing can grow. That is why the piece of bread that I hold in
my hand is a wonder of life. It is there for all of us. We have to
be there for it.
5
Walking Meditation
WE HAVE TO AWAKEN ourselves to the truth that we are here,
alive. We are here making steps on this beautiful planet. This is
already performing a miracle. But we have to be here in order
for the miracle to be possible. We have to bring ourselves back
to the here and the now. Therefore, each step we take becomes
a miracle. If you are able to walk like that, each step will be
very nourishing and healing. You walk as if you kiss the earth
with your feet, as if you massage the earth with your feet.
There is a lot of love in that practice of walking meditation.
6
Concentration
WHEN YOU CONTEMPLATE the big, full sunrise, the more mindful
and concentrated you are, the more the beauty of the sunrise is
revealed to you. Suppose you are offered a cup of tea, very
fragrant, very good tea. If your mind is distracted, you cannot
really enjoy the tea. You have to be mindful of the tea, you have
to be concentrated on it, so the tea can reveal its fragrance and
wonder to you. That is why mindfulness and concentration are
such sources of happiness. That's why a good practitioner
knows how to create a moment of joy, a feeling of happiness, at
any time of the day.
7
Why We Suffer
WHEN WE LOOK deeply at the nature of things, we see that in fact
everything is impermanent. Nothing exists as a permanent
entity; everything changes. It is said that we cannot step into
the same river twice. If we look for a single, permanent entity
in a river, we will not find it. The same is true of our physical
body. There is no such thing as a self, no absolute, permanent
entity to be found in the element we call "body." In our
ignorance we believe that there is a permanent entity in us,
and our pain and suffering manifest on the basis of that
ignorance. If we touch deeply the nonself nature in us, we can
get out of that suffering.
8
Suchness
THE WORD suchness describes reality as it is. Concepts and ideas
are incapable of expressing reality as it is. Nirvana, the
ultimate reality, cannot be described, because it is free of all
concepts and ideas. Nirvana is the extinction of all concepts.
Most of our suffering arises from our ideas and concepts. If
you are able to free yourself from these concepts, anxiety and
fear will disappear. Nirvana, the ultimate reality, or God, is of
the nature of no-birth and no-death. It is total freedom.
9
I Have Arrived
WE BELIEVE THAT happiness is possible only in the future. That is
why the practice "I have arrived" is very important. The
realization that we have already arrived, that we don't have to
travel any further, that we are already here, can give us peace
and joy. The conditions for our happiness are already sufficient.
We only need to allow ourselves to be in the present moment,
and we will be able to touch them.
10
Lotus in the Mud
THE GOODNESS OF suffering is something real. Without suffering
there cannot be happiness. Without mud there cannot be any
lotus flowers. So if you know how to suffer, suffering is OK. And
the moment you have that attitude, you don't suffer much
anymore. And out of suffering, a lotus flower of happiness can
open.
11
Aimlessness
THERE IS A Buddhist teaching that might seem strange to you.
This is the teaching of aimlessness (apranihita in Sanskrit).
Aimlessness means not setting an object or goal in front of you
and running after it. That is exactly what everybody does. We
want this, we want that, and as long as we haven't got it, we
think happiness will be impossible.
We must bring about a revolution in our thinking: we must
stop. We must do as the flower does. The flower is aware of the
fact that it contains everything within it, the whole cosmos, and
it does not try to become something else. It is the same for you.
You have God within you, so you do not have to look for God.
12
The Wave and the Water
THERE ARE TWO dimensions to life, and we should be able to
touch both. One is like a wave, and we call it the "historical
dimension." The other is like the water, and we call it the
"ultimate dimension," or "nirvana." We usually touch just the
wave, but when we discover how to touch the water, we receive
the highest fruit that meditation can offer.
13
Freedom from Fear
BODHISATTVAS DWELL on the same ground as the rest of us-the
world of birth and death, permanence, and self. But thanks to
the practice of looking deeply into impermanence and nonself,
they are in touch with the ultimate dimension, free from the
fears associated with ideas of existence and nonexistence, one
and many, coming and going, birth and death. In this freedom,
they ride the waves of birth and death in perfect peace. They
are able to remain in the world of waves while abiding in the
nature of water.
14
I Am Here for You
THE HEART OF Buddhist practice is to generate our own presence
in such a way that we can touch deeply the life that is here and
available in every moment. We have to be here for ourselves;
we have to be here for the people we love; we have to be here
for life with all its wonders. The message of our Buddhist
practice is simple and clear: "I am here for you."
15
The Foundation of Love
IF WE DO NOT know how to take care of ourselves and to love
ourselves, we cannot take care of the people we love. Loving
oneself is the foundation for loving another person.
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Embrace Them with Great Tenderness
DO NOT FIGHT against pain; do not fight against irritation or
jealousy. Embrace them with great tenderness, as though you
were embracing a little baby. Your anger is yourself, and you
should not be violent toward it. The same thing goes for all of
your emotions.
17
Becoming a Bodhisattva
IF WE MAKE a sincere effort to practice alleviating our inner
suffering and the suffering of others, we too become
bodhisattvas, awakened beings. We support our family, friends,
and coworkers, and help them to manifest as bodhisattvas; we
do this for the entire world and for the happiness of all beings.
If through your practice you become a bodhisattva, those
around you will see that beauty, genuine spirituality, and true
love are possible. Living like this, you are happy and will
become an inspiration for others.
18
The Next Buddha
TWO THOUSAND six hundred years ago, Shakyamuni Buddha
proclaimed that the next Buddha will be named Maitreya, the
"Buddha of Love." I think Maitreya Buddha may be a
community, and not just an individual. A good community is
needed to help us resist the unwholesome ways of our time.
Mindful living protects us and helps us go in the direction of
peace. With the support of friends in the practice, peace has a
chance.
19
Flowers and Garbage
FLOWERS AND GARBAGE are both organic in nature. So looking
deeply into the nature of a flower, you can see the presence of
the compost and the garbage. The flower is also going to turn
into garbage, but don't be afraid! You are a gardener, and you
have in your hands the power to transform garbage into
flowers, into fruit, into vegetables. You don't throw anything
away, because you are not afraid of garbage. Your hands are
capable of transforming it into flowers, or lettuce, or
cucumbers.
The same thing is true of your happiness and your sorrow.
Sorrow, fear, and depression are all a kind of garbage. These
bits of garbage are part of real life, and we must look deeply
into their nature. You can practice in order to turn these bits of
garbage into flowers. It is not only your love that is organic;
your hate is, too. So you should not throw anything out. All you
have to do is learn how to transform your garbage into flowers.
20
A Visit from a Friend
SUPPOSE A FRIEND who has come a long way to visit is having a
cup of tea with us. Mindfulness helps the time we spend with
her to be a time we won't forget. We're not thinking of
anything. We're not thinking of our business, our projects. We
just focus our attention on this moment when we're with our
friend. We're fully aware that she is there and that we can sit
with her and enjoy a cup of tea. Mindfulness helps us to taste
the joy of each moment very deeply.
21
Life Is Not a Means to an End
WITH MINDFUL WALKING, our steps are no longer a means to arrive
at an end. When we walk to the kitchen to serve our meal, we
don't need to think, "I have to walk to the kitchen to get the
food." With mindfulness, we can say, "I am enjoying walking to
the kitchen," and each step is an end in itself. There is no
distinction between means and ends. There is no way to
happiness; happiness is the way. There is no way to
enlightenment; enlightenment is the way.
22
The Lamp of Mindfulness
WE HAVE A LAMP inside us, the lamp of mindfulness, which we
can light anytime. The oil of that lamp is our breathing, our
steps, and our peaceful smile. We have to light up that lamp of
mindfulness so the light will shine out and the darkness will
dissipate and cease. Our practice is to light up the lamp.
23
The Suffering of Those We Love
IF WE CAN HOLD OUR ANGER, our sorrow, and our fear with the
energy of mindfulness, we will be able to recognize the roots of
our suffering. We will be able to recognize the suffering in the
people we love as well. Mindfulness helps us to not be angry at
our loved ones, because when we are mindful, we understand
that our loved ones are suffering as well.
24
A Love Letter
IT'S THE ENERGY of mindfulness in us that allows us to write a
real love letter and reconcile with another person. A real love
letter is made of insight, understanding, and compassion.
Otherwise it's not a love letter. A true love letter can produce a
transformation in the other person, and therefore in the world.
But before it produces a transformation in the other person, it
has to produce a transformation within us. Some letters may
take the whole of our lifetime to write.
25
Selective Watering
THROUGH THE practice of deep looking, we can identify the
positive seeds that we want to water every day, and train
ourselves not to water the negative ones. This is called
"selective watering." The Buddha recommended methods for
doing this, and even a few days of this practice can bring about
a transformation.
26
Sovereign of the Five Elements
EACH ONE OF US is sovereign over the territory of our own being
and the five elements (Sanskrit: skandhas) we are made of.
These elements are form (body), feelings, perceptions, mental
formations, and consciousness. Our practice is to look deeply
into these five elements and discover the true nature of our
being-the true nature of our suffering, our happiness, our
peace, our fearlessness.
27
A Century of Spirituality
I HAVE HEARD SOME people predict that the twenty-first century
will be a century of spirituality. Personally, I think it must be a
century of spirituality if we are to survive at all. In our society,
there is so much suffering, violence, despair, and confusion.
There is so much fear. How can we survive without spirituality?
28
The Seeds of Happiness
WHETHER WE HAVE happiness or not depends on the seeds in our
consciousness. If our seeds of compassion, understanding, and
love are strong, those qualities will be able to manifest in us. If
the seeds of anger, hostility, and sadness in us are strong, then
we will experience much suffering.
To understand someone, we have to be aware of the quality
of the seeds in his store consciousness. And we need to
remember that he is not solely responsible for those seeds. His
ancestors, parents, and society are coresponsible for the
quality of the seeds in his consciousness. When we understand
this, we are able to feel compassion for that person. With
understanding and love, we will know how to water our own
beautiful seeds and those of others, and we will recognize
seeds of suffering and find ways to transform them.
29
The Art of Mindful Living
MINDFUL LIVING IS an art. You do not have to be a monk or live in
a monastery to practice mindfulness. You can practice it
anytime, while driving your car or doing housework. Driving in
mindfulness will make the time in your car joyful, and it will
also help you avoid accidents. You can use the red traffic light
as a signal of mindfulness, reminding you to stop and enjoy
your breathing. Similarly, when you do the dishes after dinner,
you can practice mindful breathing so the time of dish washing
is pleasant and meaningful. Do not feel you have to rush. If you
hurry, you waste the time of dish washing. The time you spend
washing dishes and doing all your other everyday tasks is
precious. It is a time for being alive. When you practice mindful
living, peace will bloom during your daily activities.
30
No Beginning and No End
WE USUALLY TRY to hold on to life and run away from death. But,
according to the teaching, everything has been nirvana from
the nonbeginning. So why do we have to grasp one thing and
avoid another? In the ultimate dimension, there is no beginning
and no end. We think there is something to attain, something
outside of ourselves, but everything is already here.
31
Awareness of the Body
IN SITTING MEDITATION, the first thing is to be aware that you are
in a sitting position. Then, you can sit in a way that brings you
calm, solidity, and well-being. We can notice the position of our
body in each moment, whether we are sitting, walking,
standing, or lying down. We can be aware of our actions,
whether we are getting up, bending down, or putting on a
jacket. Awareness brings us back to ourselves, and when we
are fully mindful of our body, and living in the here and now, we
are in our true home.
32
Constant Transformation
IMPERMANENCE and selflessness are not negative aspects of life,
but the very foundations on which life is built. Impermanence is
the constant transformation of things. Without impermanence,
there can be no life. Selflessness is the interdependent nature
of all things. Without interdependence, nothing could exist.
33
The Great Insight
THIS IS THE GREAT insight of Mahayana Buddhism: everyone can
become a buddha. What Siddhartha achieved, all of us can also
achieve, whether we are a man or a woman, no matter what
social class or ethnic group we were born into, or whether we
practice as a monastic or as a layperson. We all have the
capacity to become a fully enlightened buddha. And while on
the path to becoming a fully enlightened buddha, we are all
bodhisattvas.
34
What the Buddha Taught
FOR FORTY-FIVE years, the Buddha said, over and over again, "I
teach only suffering and the transformation of suffering." When
we recognize and acknowledge our own suffering, the Buddha
-which means the Buddha in us-will look at it, discover what
has brought it about, and prescribe a course of action that can
transform it into peace, joy, and liberation. Suffering is the
means the Buddha used to liberate himself, and it is also the
means by which we can become free.
35
Agonizing Questions
WHEN WE AGONIZE over questions like, "Who am I? Where do I
come from? Was I wanted? What is the meaning of my life?" we
suffer because we're caught in the idea of a separate self. But if
we look deeply, we can practice no-self. This is the realization
that we're not a separate self; we're connected to our
ancestors and to all beings.
36
For All Generations
WE HAVE TO LIVE in a way that liberates the ancestors and future
generations who are inside of us. Joy, peace, freedom, and
harmony are not individual matters. If we do not liberate our
ancestors, we will be in bondage all our life, and we will
transmit that to our children and grandchildren. Now is the
time to do it. To liberate them means to liberate ourselves. This
is the teaching of interbeing. As long as the ancestors in us are
still suffering, we cannot really be happy. If we take one step
mindfully, freely, happily touching the earth, we do it for all
previous and future generations. They all arrive with us at the
same moment, and all of us find peace at the same time.
37
Enjoy Being a Buddha
BECOMING A BUDDHA is not so difficult. A buddha is someone who
is enlightened, capable of loving, and forgiving. You know that
at times you're like that. So enjoy being a buddha. When you
sit, allow the Buddha in you to sit. When you walk, allow the
Buddha in you to walk. Enjoy your practice. If you don't
become a buddha, who will?
38
Stopping Thoughts
YOU CAN NATURALLY stop your thoughts if you focus your
attention fully on your in-breath and your out-breath. After one
or two minutes of practice, the quality of your in-breath and
out-breath will improve. Your breath will become deeper,
slower, and more harmonious and peaceful, whether you are
lying down, sitting, or walking. By practicing mindful
breathing, we bring the elements of harmony and peace into
our body.
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Ghosts
DO YOU HAVE A problem right now, in this moment? Look at
yourself in your physical form, your feelings, your perceptions.
Do you have a problem? If we see that we don't have any
problem at all in the present moment, we shouldn't let the
ghosts of the past dominate us. We should not let the
projections of the past or the future break us down. They're
just ghosts. That's why we train ourselves to always be in the
present moment. That's our practice. That's our path. It's the
way to reconciliation.
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True Practice
DEEPENING OUR PRACTICE means having a genuine practice,
practicing not in form only. When your practice is genuine, it
will bring joy, peace, and stability to yourself and to the people
around you. Actually I prefer the phrase true practice. To me,
the practice should be pleasant. True practice can bring life to
us right away. As you practice mindful breathing, you become
alive, you become real, not only when you sit or walk, but when
you're making breakfast or performing any activity. If you know
how to breathe in and out mindfully while making breakfast
with a smile, you will cultivate freedom-freedom from thinking
about the past or worrying about the future-aliveness, joy, and
compassion. That is true practice, and its effect can be seen
right away.
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Nothing to Search For
WHEN WE TRANSCEND notions of inside and outside, we know that
the object we wish to attain is already within us. We don't have
to search for it in space or time. It is already available in the
present moment. The contemplation on nonattainment is very
important. The object we wish to attain is already attained. We
don't need to attain anything. We already have it. We already
are it.
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The Buddha Walking
IN THE BEGINNING, we may believe that there must be someone in
order for the breathing to be possible; there must be someone
in order for the walking to be possible. But in fact the walking,
the breathing, is enough; we don't need a walker, we don't
need a breather. We can just notice that there is walking going
on. There is breathing going on.
What I consider to be the Buddha walking is just the walking,
but it's a high quality of walking. Because that walking is
enjoyable, it's mindful walking-there's a lot of peace and joy.
The Buddha is that breathing. The Buddha is that walking.
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The Two Aspects of Buddhist
Meditation
IF YOU LOOK INTO Buddhist meditation, you will find that it has
two aspects: first, stopping, and then, deep looking. When you
achieve stopping, you become solid and concentrated. That
allows you to practice looking deeply into what's here, and
looking deeply into the nature of things brings insight. This
understanding will liberate you from your suffering.
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We Already Have Enough
THE BUDDHA SPOKE about the practice of samtusta, recognizing
that we have enough conditions to be happy right here and
right now. We don't need to obtain any more. Samtusta has
been translated as realizing that one is satisfied with little.
When we go home to the present moment, we view all the
conditions of happiness that we have, and we may find that
they are more than enough for us to be happy right now. We
need to stop running after things, because even if we get the
object of our desire, we won't be happy and we'll want to run
after another one.
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The Bridge
BREATH IS THE BRIDGE that connects life to consciousness, the
bridge that unites your body to your thoughts. Whenever your
mind becomes scattered, use your breath as the means to take
hold of your mind again.
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Deep Listening and Loving Speech
DEEP LISTENING AND loving speech are wonderful instruments to
help us arrive at the kind of understanding we all need as a
basis for appropriate action. You listen deeply for only one
purpose-to allow the other person to empty his or her heart.
This is already an act of relieving suffering. To stop any
suffering, no matter how small, is a great action of peace. The
path to end suffering depends on your understanding and your
capacity to act without causing harm or further suffering. This
is acting with compassion, your best protection.
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The Mind of Enlightenment
BODHICHITTA (SANSKRIT) is the mind of enlightenment, beginner's
mind. When we're inspired by the desire to practice and
transform our suffering so we can help the many people around
us who suffer, the mind of that moment is very beautiful. It's
the mind of a bodhisattva, one who attains his or her own
liberation in order to help all beings. Sometimes we call it the
"mind of love." It's because of love that we practice. We're not
just trying to run away from suffering. We want more than that.
We want to transform our own suffering and be free in order to
help many other people to transform their suffering.
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Enjoy a Moment of Nothing
IF YOU CAN FIND a moment to sit, wherever you are, stay there
and enjoy doing nothing. Just enjoy your in-breath and outbreath. Don't allow yourself to be carried away by your
thinking, worries, or projects. Just sit there and enjoy doing
nothing; enjoy your breathing and the fact that you are alive
and that you have twenty minutes or half an hour to enjoy
doing nothing. This is very healing, transforming, and
nourishing.
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What Is a Leaf?
SUPPOSE I HOLD a leaf in my hand. What do you see? A leaf is a
leaf; it is not a flower. But in fact, when we look deeply into the
leaf, we can see many things. We can see the plant, we can see
the sunshine, we can see the clouds, we can see the earth.
When we utter the word leaf, we have to be aware that a leaf is
made of non-leaf elements. If we remove the non-leaf elements,
such as the sunshine, the clouds, and the soil, there will be no
leaf left. So it is with our bodies and ourselves. We're not the
same as, nor are we separate from, other beings. We're
connected to everything, and everything is alive.
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The Basic Principle
HAVE WE WASTED OUR HOURS AND our days? Are we wasting our
lives? These are important questions. Practicing Buddhism is to
be alive in each moment. When we practice sitting or walking,
we have the means to do it perfectly. During the rest of the day,
we also practice. It is more difficult, but it is possible. The
sitting and the walking must be extended to the non-walking,
non-sitting moments of our day. That is the basic principle of
meditation.
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Subtle Gestures
A ZEN MASTER observes the student in silence, while the student
tries to bring the practice into every moment of life. The
student may feel that she is not receiving enough attention, but
her ways and acts cannot escape the observation of the master.
The master can see if the student is or is not "awake."
If, for example, the student shuts the door noisily or
carelessly, she is demonstrating a lack of mindfulness. Closing
the door gently is not in itself a virtuous act, but awareness of
the fact that you are closing the door is an expression of real
practice. In this case, the master simply reminds the student to
close the door gently, to be mindful. The master does this not
only to respect the quiet of the monastery, but to point out to
the student that she was not practicing mindfulness, that her
acts were not majestic or subtle. It is said in Buddhism that
there are ninety thousand "subtle gestures" to practice. These
gestures and acts are expressions of the presence of
mindfulness.
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Easily Hurt
AS CHILDREN, we were very vulnerable. We got hurt very easily.
A stern look from our father could make us unhappy. A strong
word from our mother could cause a wound in our heart. As
young children, we have a lot of feelings but it's difficult to
express ourselves. We try and try. Sometimes, even if we can
find the words, the adults around us can't hear us, don't listen,
or won't allow us to talk.
We can go home to ourselves and talk to our little child, listen
to our child, and respond directly to him. I myself have done
this, even though I received love and care from my parents.
This practice has helped me tremendously. The child is still
there and may be deeply wounded. We have neglected the child
in us for a long time. We have to come back, and comfort, love,
and care for the child within us.
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When You Argue with the One You Love
WHEN YOU GET into an argument with someone you love, please
close your eyes and visualize yourself three hundred years from
now. When you open your eyes, you will only want to take each
other in your arms and acknowledge how precious each of you
is. The teaching of impermanence helps us appreciate fully
what is there, without attachment or forgetfulness.
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Rites of Life
CHOPPING WOOD IS meditation. Carrying water is meditation. Be
mindful twenty-four hours a day, not just during the one hour
you may allot for formal meditation, or reading scripture and
reciting prayers. Each act must be carried out in mindfulness.
Each act is a rite, a ceremony. Raising your cup of tea to your
mouth is a rite. Does the word rite seem too solemn? I use that
word in order to jolt you into the realization of the life-anddeath matter of awareness.
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The Real Miracle
I LIKE TO WALK alone on country paths, rice plants and wild
grasses on both sides, putting each foot down on the earth in
mindfulness, knowing that I walk on the wondrous earth. In
such moments, existence is a miraculous and mysterious
reality. People usually consider walking on water or in thin air a
miracle. But I think the real miracle is not to walk either on
water or in thin air, but to walk on the earth. Every day we are
engaged in a miracle that we don't even recognize: a blue sky,
white clouds, green leaves, the black, curious eyes of a child-
our own two eyes. All is a miracle.
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Stop the War
THE INSIGHT OF nonduality will put a stop to the war in you. You
have struggled in the past, and perhaps you are still struggling
-but is it necessary? No. Struggle is useless. Stop struggling.
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The Future Is Now
THE PRACTICE OF mindfulness doesn't forbid us to plan for the
future. It's best not to lose ourselves in uncertainty and fear
over the future, but if we're truly established in the present
moment, we can bring the future to the here and the now, and
make plans. We're not losing the present moment when we
think about the future. In fact, the present moment contains
both past and future. The only material that the future is made
of is the present. If you know how to handle the present in the
best way you can, that's all you can do for the future. Handling
the present moment with all your attention, all your
intelligence, is already building a future.
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Inner Silence
SILENCE IS SOMETHING that comes from your heart, not from
outside. Silence doesn't mean not talking and not doing things;
it means that you are not disturbed inside, there is no talking
inside. If you're truly silent, then no matter what situation you
find yourself in, you can enjoy the silence. There are moments
when you think you're silent and all around is silent, but talking
is going on all the time inside your head. That's not silence.
The practice is to find silence in all the activities you do.
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Children of the Earth
WE ARE CHILDREN of the earth. We rely on the earth, and the
earth relies on us. Whether the earth is beautiful, fresh, and
green, or arid and parched, depends on our way of walking.
Please touch the earth in mindfulness, with joy and
concentration. The earth will heal you, and you will heal the
earth.
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The Liberating Power of Insight
CONCENTRATION HELPS us focus on just one thing. With
concentration, the energy of looking becomes more powerful,
and insight is possible. Insight always has the power of
liberating us. If mindfulness is there, and we know how to keep
mindfulness alive, concentration will be there, too. And if we
know how to keep concentration alive, insight will also come.
The energy of mindfulness enables us to look deeply and gain
the insight we need so that transformation is possible.
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A Game of Hide-and-Seek
HAVE YOU EVER PLAYED with a kaleidoscope? Just a small
movement is enough to make something miraculous appear. A
tableau of colors and forms is presented to you, a
manifestation. You keep this view for a few seconds, then you
turn the kaleidoscope and another manifestation appears.
Should we cry every time one of these manifestations comes to
an end? A flower manifests, then disappears, then manifests,
then disappears-thousands upon thousands of times. If you
look deeply at things, you will see this reality. We manifest,
then disappear. It is a game of hide-and-seek.
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Are You Sure?
ALL OF US ARE only human, and we have wrong perceptions
every day. Our spouse or partner is also subject to wrong
perceptions, so we must help each other to see more clearly
and more deeply. We should not trust our perceptions too much
-that is something the Buddha taught. "Are you sure of your
perceptions?" he asked us. I urge you to write this phrase down
on a card and put it up on the wall of your room: "Are you sure
of your perceptions?"
There is a river of perceptions in you. You should sit down on
the bank of this river and contemplate your perceptions. Most
of our perceptions, the Buddha said, are false. Are you sure of
your perceptions? This question is addressed to you. It is a bell
of mindfulness.
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A Gift to the One You Love
WHEN YOU KNOW how to generate your own presence, you can
make a gift of it to the one you love. This is something very
practical. It is easy to do, it costs nothing, and it can be done
very quickly. You do not have to practice for years to see the
results. One minute will do. So you should put what you have
learned into practice right away.
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Walking in the Kingdom of God
WE ALL HAVE the ability to walk in the Kingdom of God, to walk
in the Pure Land of Buddha, every day. You have all you need-
legs, lungs, eyes, and mind-and with a little bit of practice,
you can generate the energy of mindfulness within you, just
like lighting a lamp. Once you have become truly alive, take a
step and you will enter the Kingdom of God.
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Don't Underestimate Yourself
DON'T UNDERESTIMATE yourself. You have the ability to wake up.
You have the ability to be compassionate. You just need a little
bit of practice to be able to touch the best that is in you.
Enlightenment, mindfulness, understanding, and compassion
are in you. Very simple practices-such as meditative walking,
mindful breathing, or washing dishes mindfully-make it
possible for you to leave hell and touch the positive seeds that
are within you.
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Everyone Will Benefit
IF WE ARE NOT happy, if we are not peaceful, we can't share
peace and happiness with others, even those we love, those
who live under the same roof. If we are peaceful, if we are
happy, we can smile and blossom like a flower, and everyone in
our family, our entire society, will benefit from our peace.
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True Understanding
THE PRACTICE OF meditation is to look at reality in such a way
that the boundary between subject and object will no longer be
there. We have to remove the boundary between the inquirer
and the object of inquiry. If we want to understand someone,
we put ourselves into his skin. In order for friends or families to
really understand each other, they need to become each other.
The only way to understand fully is to become the object of our
understanding. True understanding happens when we
dismantle the barrier between the object of understanding and
the subject of understanding.
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Nondiscrimination
PEACE AND COMPASSION go hand in hand with understanding and
nondiscrimination. We choose one thing over another when we
discriminate. With the eyes of compassion, we can look at all of
living reality at once. A compassionate person sees himself or
herself in every being. With the ability to view reality from
many viewpoints, we can overcome all viewpoints and act
compassionately in each situation.
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Suddenly You Are Free
YOU CAN MAKE A step and touch the earth in such a way that you
establish yourself in the present moment, and you will arrive in
the here and the now. You don't need to make any effort at all.
Your foot touches the earth mindfully, and you arrive firmly in
the here and the now. And suddenly you are free-free from all
projects, all worries, all expectations. You are fully present,
fully alive, and you are touching the earth.
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The Miraculous Smile
IN OUR FACE THERE are dozens of muscles, and when we're angry
or afraid, those muscles hold a lot of tension. But if we know to
breathe in and be aware of them, and breathe out and smile to
them, we can help them release the tension. Our face can be
completely different after one in-breath and out-breath. A smile
can bring a miracle.
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Habit Energy
HABIT ENERGY IS pushing us; it pushes us to do things without
our being aware. Sometimes we do something without knowing
we're doing it. Even when we don't want to do something, we
still do it. Sometimes we say, "I didn't want to do it, but it's
stronger than me, it pushed me." So that is a seed, a habit
energy, which may have come from many generations in the
past.
We have inherited a lot. With mindfulness, we can become
aware of the habit energy that has been passed down to us. We
might see that our parents or grandparents were also very
weak in ways similar to us. We can be aware without judgment
that our negative habits come from these ancestral roots. We
can smile at our shortcomings, at our habit energy. With
awareness, we have a choice; we can act another way. We can
end the cycle of suffering right now.
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You Are Safe Now
ALL KINDS OF desires are the continuation of our original desire
to be safe. The little child in us continues to worry and be
fearful. In the present moment there's no problem, no threat. If
we don't have a problem in the present moment, it means we
don't have a problem. Why continue to worry and be fearful?
We have to transmit that wisdom to the inner child. We need to
let the child within us know that he or she no longer has to be
afraid.
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The Anchor
THERE ARE MANY ways to come back to the here and the now, and
to touch life deeply. But they all involve mindful breathing. If
we're anchored in our mindful breathing, we can practice
anytime. Otherwise we risk missing our lives, our lives that are
lived in the here and now.
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Caught in the Idea of a Self
WESTERN PSYCHOTHERAPY AIMS at helping create a self that is
stable and wholesome. But because psychotherapy in the West
is still caught in the idea of self, it can bring about only a little
transformation and a little healing; it can't go very far. As long
as we are caught in the idea of a separate self, ignorance is still
in us. When we see the intimate relationship between what is
self and what is not self, ignorance is healed and suffering,
anger, jealousy, and fear disappear. If we can practice no-self,
we'll be able to go beyond the questions that make people
suffer so much.
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Your True Nature
WHEN WE LOOK deeply at our own nature, we can get in touch
with its ultimate reality. This ultimate nature is free of birth,
free of death, free from any notion such as high, low, this, that,
and so forth. In Buddhism, we call this "nirvana," or
"suchness." Nirvana is the extinction of all concepts, such as
existence, nonexistence, death, and birth.
You have this dimension called the "ultimate" within you. In
fact, you are free from birth and from death, free from
existence and from nonexistence. Your true nature is the nature
of nirvana. If you are from the Christian tradition, you could
say that this ultimate dimension is God. The Kingdom of God is
free from birth and death, free from high and low, free from
existence and nonexistence.
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Saints
SOMETIMES YOU ENCOUNTER people who are so pure, beautiful,
and content. They give you the impression that they are divine,
that they actually are saints or holy beings. What you perceive
in them is their awakened self, their Buddha nature, and what
they reflect back to you is your own capacity for being awake.
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The Most Wonderful Moment of Your Life
THE TEACHING OF the Buddha tells you clearly and plainly to
make this the most magnificent and wonderful moment of your
life. This present moment must become the most wonderful
moment in your life. All you need to transform this present
moment into a wonderful one is freedom. All you need to do is
free yourself from your worries and preoccupations about the
past, the future, and so on.
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The Wounded Child
WHEN WE SPEAK of listening with compassion, we usually think of
listening to someone else. But we must also listen to the
wounded child inside of us. Sometimes the wounded child in us
needs all our attention. That little child might emerge from the
depths of your consciousness and ask for your attention. If you
are mindful, you will hear his or her voice calling for help. At
that moment, instead of paying attention to whatever is in front
of you, go back and tenderly embrace the wounded child.
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Releasing Our Cows
ONE DAY THE Buddha was sitting in the forest with a number of
monks when a peasant came by. He had just lost his cows; they
had run away. He asked the monks whether they had seen his
cows passing by. The Buddha said, "No, we haven't seen your
cows passing through here; you may want to look for them in
another direction."
When the farmer had gone, the Buddha turned to his monks,
smiled, and said, "Dear friends, you should be very happy. You
don't have any cows to lose."
One practice we can do is to take a piece of paper and write
down the names of our cows. Then we can look deeply to see
whether we're capable of releasing some of them. We may have
thought these things were crucial to our well-being, but if we
look deeply, we may realize that they are the obstacles to our
true joy and happiness.
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The Universal Seed
MINDFULNESS IS the kind of light that shows us the way. It is the
living Buddha inside of each of us. Mindfulness gives birth to
insight, awakening, compassion, and love. Not only Buddhists,
but also Christians, Jews, Muslims, and Marxists can accept
that each of us has the capacity of being mindful, that everyone
has the seed of mindfulness in himself or herself. If we know
how to water this seed, it will grow, and we will become alive
again, capable of enjoying all the wonders of life.
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Don't Run Away
THE TENDENCY TO run away from suffering is there in every one
of us. We think that by seeking pleasure we'll avoid suffering.
But this doesn't work. It stunts our growth and our happiness.
Happiness isn't possible without understanding, compassion,
and love. And love is not possible if we don't understand our
suffering and the other person's suffering.
Getting in touch with suffering will help us cultivate
compassion and love. Without understanding and love we can't
be happy, and we can't make other people happy. We all have
the seeds of compassion, forgiveness, joy, and nonfear in us. If
we're constantly trying to avoid suffering, there is no way for
these seeds to grow.
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Something to Believe In
MINDFULNESS IS something we can believe in. To believe in
mindfulness is safe, and not at all abstract. When we drink a
glass of water and know that we are drinking a glass of water,
mindfulness is there. When we sit, walk, stand, or breathe, and
know that we are sitting, walking, standing, or breathing, we
touch the seed of mindfulness in us, and after a few days, our
mindfulness will grow quite strong.
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A Deeper View of Life
THE WORK OF acknowledging everything in mindfulness leads us
to a deeper view of what life is. It is very important to
understand that impermanence is not a negative aspect of life.
Impermanence is the very basis of life. If what exists were not
impermanent, no life could continue. If a grain of corn were not
impermanent, it could not become a corn plant. If a tiny child
were not impermanent, she could not grow into an adult.
Life is impermanent, but that does not mean that it is not
worth living. It is precisely because of its impermanence that
we value life so dearly. Therefore we must know how to live
each moment deeply and use it in a responsible way. If we are
able to live the present moment completely, we will not feel
regret later. We will know how to care for those who are close
to us and how to bring them happiness. When we accept that
all things are impermanent, we will not be incapacitated by
suffering when things decay and die. We can remain peaceful
and content in the face of continuity and change, prosperity
and decline, success and failure.
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Conscious Breathing
BREATHING AND knowing that we are breathing is a basic
practice. No one can be truly successful in the art of meditating
without going through the door of breathing. To practice
conscious breathing is to open the door to stopping and looking
deeply in order to enter the domain of concentration and
insight. The meditation master Tang Hoi said that Anapanasati
[being aware of breathing] is the great vehicle offered by the
Buddha to living beings.
Conscious breathing is the way into any sort of meditative
concentration. Conscious breathing also leads us to the basic
realization of the impermanence, emptiness, interdependent
origination, selflessness, and nonduality of all that is. It is true
that we can practice stopping and looking deeply without using
conscious breathing, but conscious breathing is the safest and
surest path we can follow.
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Mind and Body as One
WHEN BODY AND mind are together, you are fully present. You are
fully alive and you can touch the wonders of life that are
available in the here and the now. So you practice not only with
your mind but with your body. Body and mind should be
experienced as one thing, not two. On that ground, you see that
everything you are looking for is already there.
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Everything We Do Brings Joy
BRUSHING OUR teeth, cooking our breakfast, walking to the
meditation hall-everything we do, every step, every breath
should bring joy and happiness to us. Life is already full of
suffering; we don't need to create more.
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The Ocean
SUPPOSE WE ARE looking at the ocean. On the surface we see
waves rising and falling. From the point of view of the waves,
there is birth and death, high and low, rising and falling. There
are distinctions between waves.
But each wave is made of a substance called "water." It is a
wave, but at the same time, it is water. Concepts such as birth
and death, higher and lower, rising and falling apply only to the
waves, which represent the historical dimension, and do not
apply to the water itself, the ultimate dimension.