feat: support to append delete type data file

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This PR support to support to append delete type data file

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cc @liurenjie1024 @Xuanwo @Fokko @sdd

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Sorry, I think I have some misunderstanding here since the action which support to append data file and delete file(position delete file, equality delete file) is RowDelta.🤔 So I guess what we need is right:

1. MergingSnapshotProducer: https://github.com/apache/iceberg/blob/540d6a6251e31b232fe6ed2413680621454d107a/core/src/main/java/org/apache/iceberg/MergingSnapshotProducer.java#L61
2. RowDelta: https://github.com/apache/iceberg/blob/540d6a6251e31b232fe6ed2413680621454d107a/api/src/main/java/org/apache/iceberg/RowDelta.java#L32

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I noticed that MergingSnapshotProducer work like the MergeAppend, it will merge manifest when commit. Is that necessary for RowDelta?🤔 Can we implement RowDelta works like FastAppend but it can append data file and delete type file first here? I trying a demo using this way and it can query using spark. @Fokko