[CH] delta-mergetree support update/delete/upsert/insert in a more Delta-like way

[binmahone]

Description

for delta-mergetree, the issue will :

1. Refactor already supported insert feature, so that it works more like vanilla Delta. This also includes removing some long-existing unnecessary concepts like ClickhouseAnalysis, ClickHouseFileIndex, ClickhouseScan, etc. After this PR, it is also required that users to put "--conf spark.sql.extensions=io.delta.sql.DeltaSparkSessionExtension" into spark parameters.
2. Based on the refactor, update/delete/upsert is also implemented.
3. Add test cases for insert overwrite ( it seems naturally working)
4. Fix bucket pruning not working when there's a filter on bucket column

Must do

to enable this feature, you must:

1. --conf spark.sql.extensions=io.delta.sql.DeltaSparkSessionExtension
2. --conf spark.executor.extraClassPath=${spark_home}/jars/gluten.jar --conf spark.driver.extraClassPath=${spark_home}/jars/gluten.jar, the reason is similar to https://github.com/apache/incubator-gluten/blob/main/docs/velox-backend-troubleshooting.md#incompatible-class-error-when-using-native-writer

[binmahone]

perf test report: https://kyligence.feishu.cn/wiki/AwMOw5OAQilhDZkbLEMcdpDOn9g