chore: Remove auto-patching from typed controllers

[jonathan-innis]

Fixes aws/karpenter-provider-aws#3153
Fixes #153

Description

• Remove auto-patching from typed controllers
• This doesn't add patch helpers for not patching on no change yet since it felt like an unnecessary abstraction given the amount of patching that we are currently doing.

How was this change tested?

make presubmit
FOCUS=Scheduling make e2etests
FOCUS=Emptiness make e2etests
FOCUS=Termination make e2etests

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[coveralls]

Pull Request Test Coverage Report for Build 3871294991

• 16 of 27 (59.26%) changed or added relevant lines in 6 files are covered.
• 20 unchanged lines in 4 files lost coverage.
• Overall coverage decreased (-0.1%) to 76.277%

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Changes Missing Coverage	Covered Lines	Changed/Added Lines	%
pkg/controllers/node/controller.go	7	9	77.78%
pkg/controllers/termination/controller.go	3	6	50.0%
pkg/controllers/counter/controller.go	0	6	0.0%

Files with Coverage Reduction	New Missed Lines	%
pkg/controllers/counter/controller.go	1	0%
pkg/controllers/deprovisioning/controller.go	3	70.33%
pkg/controllers/node/controller.go	7	72.73%
pkg/controllers/deprovisioning/events/events.go	9	80.0%

Totals
Change from base Build 3857342106:	-0.1%
Covered Lines:	5749
Relevant Lines:	7537

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