fix: Small fixes to language switcher

[gmaclennan]

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Description

Some small fixes to the language switch dialog:

• Show the currently selected locale
• Allow the user to cancel language switch

Also wrote code to change language without a force-refresh, but our iD Editor integration with React was unhappy (iD re-renders everything when you switch language, and we have a React component patched into the iD toolbar).