Revert "Use gloo as part of DeviceGPU's process group backend (#3509)"

[snarayan21]

This reverts commit cccc8a7.

Seeing errors with creating gloo PG on specific clusters. Will root cause and try to get this merged again. Props to @JackZ-db for first reporting!

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