prefer web over node export condition for non-node targets

[pi0]

When resolving dependencies (both bundled and externalized), we also add a node export condition (like this).

Doing this, basically breaks dual build for packages like uncrypto because they assume node is for Node.js only but it is also necessary to use node condition always because (sadly) many libraries in npm ecosystem still consider node ==== server. We need to be cautious how to approach this but also eventually push the ecosystem and common libs to use a better condition

Example for vue-router conditions:

[pi0]

Next.js seems using edge-light condition

• [edge] support edge-light exports when bundling edge functions vercel/next.js#45188
• https://runtime-keys.proposal.wintercg.org/#edge-light

Also related wintercg/runtime-keys#5