diff --git a/lib/_http_incoming.js b/lib/_http_incoming.js
index c1ff5c8dd22536..d09683c9a8f1b1 100644
--- a/lib/_http_incoming.js
+++ b/lib/_http_incoming.js
@@ -33,7 +33,6 @@ const {
 } = primordials;
 
 const { Readable, finished } = require('stream');
-const { kDestroy, destroy } = require('internal/stream')
 
 const kHeaders = Symbol('kHeaders');
 const kHeadersCount = Symbol('kHeadersCount');
@@ -173,14 +172,6 @@ IncomingMessage.prototype._read = function _read(n) {
     readStart(this.socket);
 };
 
-IncomingMessage.prototype[kDestroy] = function (err) {
-  if (!err && !this.res.destroyed) {
-    this.socket = null
-  }
-
-  this.destroy(err)
-}
-
 // It's possible that the socket will be destroyed, and removed from
 // any messages, before ever calling this.  In that case, just skip
 // it, since something else is destroying this connection anyway.
diff --git a/lib/_http_server.js b/lib/_http_server.js
index 8ada9e8cfe987a..81e64e268ce94f 100644
--- a/lib/_http_server.js
+++ b/lib/_http_server.js
@@ -68,8 +68,10 @@ const {
 const { IncomingMessage } = require('_http_incoming');
 const {
   connResetException,
-  codes
+  codes,
+  AbortError
 } = require('internal/errors');
+const { kDestroy } = require('internal/stream');
 const {
   ERR_HTTP_REQUEST_TIMEOUT,
   ERR_HTTP_HEADERS_SENT,
@@ -361,6 +363,23 @@ function writeHead(statusCode, reason, obj) {
 // Docs-only deprecated: DEP0063
 ServerResponse.prototype.writeHeader = ServerResponse.prototype.writeHead;
 
+class ServerRequest extends IncomingMessage {
+  [kDestroy] (err) {
+    if (!this.res.destroyed) {
+      this._destroy = (err, cb) => {
+        if (!this.readableEnded || !this.complete) {
+          this.aborted = true;
+          this.emit('aborted');
+        }
+
+        cb(err)
+      };
+    }
+
+    this.destroy(err);
+  }
+}
+
 function Server(options, requestListener) {
   if (!(this instanceof Server)) return new Server(options, requestListener);
 
@@ -373,7 +392,7 @@ function Server(options, requestListener) {
     throw new ERR_INVALID_ARG_TYPE('options', 'object', options);
   }
 
-  this[kIncomingMessage] = options.IncomingMessage || IncomingMessage;
+  this[kIncomingMessage] = options.IncomingMessage || options.ServerRequest || ServerRequest;
   this[kServerResponse] = options.ServerResponse || ServerResponse;
 
   const maxHeaderSize = options.maxHeaderSize;
@@ -997,6 +1016,7 @@ module.exports = {
   STATUS_CODES,
   Server,
   ServerResponse,
+  ServerRequest,
   _connectionListener: connectionListener,
   kServerResponse
 };
diff --git a/lib/internal/streams/destroy.js b/lib/internal/streams/destroy.js
index 88f8d67614b136..14868a961e097e 100644
--- a/lib/internal/streams/destroy.js
+++ b/lib/internal/streams/destroy.js
@@ -5,6 +5,7 @@ const {
   codes: {
     ERR_MULTIPLE_CALLBACK,
   },
+  AbortError,
 } = require('internal/errors');
 const {
   FunctionPrototypeCall,
@@ -374,8 +375,12 @@ function destroyer(stream, err) {
     return
   }
 
+  if (!err && (stream.readable || stream.writable)) {
+    err = new AbortError();
+  }
+
   if (typeof stream[kDestroy] === 'function') {
-    stream[kDestroy]();
+    stream[kDestroy](err);
   } else if (isRequest(stream)) {
     stream.abort();
   } else if (isRequest(stream.req)) {
@@ -406,6 +411,7 @@ module.exports = {
   kDestroy,
   construct,
   destroyer,
+  destroy2,
   destroy,
   undestroy,
   errorOrDestroy