extract mdbx from reth-db

[mattsse]

Describe the feature

ref #8509

for #8510, having just the lightweight database traits would be beneficial.

we could do a threeway split of reth-db:
reth-db-api for all the abstractions
reth-db, helper types and reth-mdbx feature for reexport (so we don't break the entire codebase)
reth-mdbx implements reth-db-api for mdbx types

Additional context

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