request-response: Provide more details into rejected requests for a high request failure

[lexnv]

Substrate presents many rejected connections, especially for the sync protocol.
The metrics are configured here in substrate.

Running libp2p side by side with litep2p, we can observe from the previous figure a very high number of requests that are marked as "rejected".

Provide more details into rejected requests by enriching the RequestResponseError::Rejected with specific details:

• is the failure due to opening a substream?
• is the connection closed and we reject all active requests?
• is this a dial failure and we reported back immediately? etc

Detected while testing and debugging:

• network/strategy: Backoff and ban overloaded peers to avoid submitting the same request multiple times polkadot-sdk#5029

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1. errors: Introduce immediate dial error and request-response rejection reasons #227
   enhancement +1