Tiup mandatory scaling needs to add judgment rules

[xiaoyangwang5]

Feature Request

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe:

When a customer expands multiple nodes at the same time and shrinks multiple nodes at the same time, it is easy to use the forced shrinking command, resulting in data loss
Describe the feature you'd like:

tiup forced shrinkage --force parameter, need to judge the label situation, need to have prompt or prohibit function

Why the featue is needed:

Describe alternatives you've considered:

Teachability, Documentation, Adoption, Migration Strategy:

[AstroProfundis]

--force is designed to be unsafe and data loss is expected.

Could you describe more details about the safe process that we might be able to implement on normal scaling operations?

[qqqdan]

We already add more significant warning when --force argument is set for scale-in command in tiup-cluster (#1629, @AstroProfundis)