fix(server): skip localhost verbatim dns lookup

[bluwy]

Description

Based on discussion in discord, we should dns.lookup with the default options so that other tools can lookup localhost equally too.

Additional context

@sapphi-red will update the docs in #8634

I'm not sure why the tests pass before.

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