Plot callbacks do not validate input parameters on call

[neutrinoceros]

Bug report

Bug summary
Plot classes have annotate_<x> methods, which are internally referred to as "plot callbacks", and are implemented as classes, inheriting the bas class PlotCallback.
Nominally, these classes have an __init__ and a __call__ method. By design, __call__ isn't actually used before the plot is actually rendered (this is the very essence of a "callback"). However, I noticed that it's also the case for __init__ methods. This makes is possible to call annotate_<x> methods with completely invalid arguments without erroring; any error will only show up at render time, which can be quite confusing

Code for reproduction

Here's an example session to demonstrate the problem

>>> import yt
>>> from yt.testing import fake_amr_ds

>>> ds = fake_amr_ds(fields=["density"], units=["g/cm**3"])
yt : [INFO     ] 2022-05-27 11:41:21,888 Parameters: current_time              = 0.0
yt : [INFO     ] 2022-05-27 11:41:21,888 Parameters: domain_dimensions         = [32 32 32]
yt : [INFO     ] 2022-05-27 11:41:21,888 Parameters: domain_left_edge          = [0. 0. 0.]
yt : [INFO     ] 2022-05-27 11:41:21,889 Parameters: domain_right_edge         = [1. 1. 1.]
yt : [INFO     ] 2022-05-27 11:41:21,889 Parameters: cosmological_simulation   = 0
>>> p = yt.SlicePlot(ds, "z", ("gas", "density"))
yt : [INFO     ] 2022-05-27 11:41:35,183 xlim = 0.000000 1.000000
yt : [INFO     ] 2022-05-27 11:41:35,183 ylim = 0.000000 1.000000
yt : [INFO     ] 2022-05-27 11:41:35,183 xlim = 0.000000 1.000000
yt : [INFO     ] 2022-05-27 11:41:35,183 ylim = 0.000000 1.000000
yt : [INFO     ] 2022-05-27 11:41:35,184 Making a fixed resolution buffer of (('gas', 'density')) 800 by 800
>>> p.annotate_contour(("gas", "density"), invalid_kwarg=True)
<yt.visualization.plot_window.AxisAlignedSlicePlot object at 0x1276e7f70>
>>> p.save("/tmp/")
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "<stdin>", line 1, in <module>
  File "/Users/robcleme/dev/yt-project/yt/yt/visualization/_commons.py", line 146, in newfunc
    self._setup_plots()
  File "/Users/robcleme/dev/yt-project/yt/yt/visualization/plot_window.py", line 1374, in _setup_plots
    self.run_callbacks()
  File "/Users/robcleme/dev/yt-project/yt/yt/visualization/plot_window.py", line 1498, in run_callbacks
    callback = CallbackMaker(*args[1:], **kwargs)
TypeError: ContourCallback.__init__() got an unexpected keyword argument 'invalid_kwarg'

Expected outcome

The TypeError should show up as soon as we call the annotate_contour method.

This came up while I was trying to solve #3941: we have a bunch of deprecation warnings in callback methods, but they only pop at render time, so it's impossible to display the problematic line users actually typed in the warning itself.

I don't think this is a trivial fix because the current implementation for annotate_<x> methods is quite complicated and involves a lot of function wrapping. Any proposed solution will need to retain gains from #3310
Unless someone can find an elegant and compact solution soon, this shouldn't be required for yt 4.1

[neutrinoceros]

update: turns out the same exact problem affects FIxedResolutionBuffer.apply_* methods, for similar reasons, so I'm fixing everything in one go in #3957