fix(query): apply translateAliases before casting to avoid strictMode error when using aliases

[vkarpov15]

Fix #14521

Summary

The following code errors out with a "n" is not in the schema error because of upsert. The issue is that we first cast the query filter, then run translateAliases, which is a 2-fold bug: 1) alias isn't in schema so Mongoose throws strict mode error with "upsert", 2) Mongoose doesn't apply casting to fields where the user specifies the path's alias rather than the path itself.

    const doc = await Test.findOneAndUpdate(
      { n: '14521' },
      { age: 7511 },
      { translateAliases: true, upsert: true, returnDocument: 'after' }
    );

With this PR, translateAliases runs before query casting.

Examples