Fix for user groups adding users to app user metadata tables

[mike12345567]

Description

There was an issue that caused user's added to groups to be added to all app user metadata tables - this includes a small fix for it.

The majority of the work in this PR was around testing, there has been issues with the server testing before now, I've updated Jest and I believe this should resolve the issue we've been seeing where the server tests haven't been running correctly/haven't been showing coverage. Updating jest also broke a few test cases (namely snapshot tests) which required updates.

Also ran into some issues with Node 16.10+ versions, it seems that we have introduced an issue with the switch to swc - I spent a lot of time looking into this, our tests were leaking memory, but it turns out this is a known issue with Node 16.10+ and Jest + SWC. jestjs/jest#7874 (comment)

There are also some other various fixes/improvements due to the way Jest expect changed a bit.

NOTE: most of the LoC changed here are from the yarn.lock being massively updated due to all the Jest library updates.

Addresses:

• https://linear.app/budibase/issue/BUDI-6657/a-user-in-a-group-is-incorrectly-added-to-an-apps-user-table
• Multiple Users added to user table on publish #9816

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Merging #10120 (502a8b1) into develop (ce86edf) will increase coverage by 18.46%.
The diff coverage is 63.51%.

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Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
packages/backend-core/src/index.ts	0.00% <ø> (ø)
packages/worker/src/index.ts	62.85% <0.00%> (+4.88%)	⬆️
packages/worker/src/tests/TestConfiguration.ts	89.68% <0.00%> (+3.68%)	⬆️
packages/backend-core/src/queue/queue.ts	22.85% <25.00%> (-0.48%)	⬇️
packages/backend-core/src/timers/timers.ts	28.57% <28.57%> (ø)
packages/backend-core/src/redis/redis.ts	56.32% <33.33%> (+7.06%)	⬆️
packages/server/src/utilities/global.ts	77.21% <46.15%> (ø)
packages/server/src/app.ts	54.28% <50.00%> (ø)
...es/server/src/tests/utilities/TestConfiguration.ts	92.26% <85.71%> (ø)
packages/backend-core/src/timers/index.ts	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
... and 7 more

... and 432 files with indirect coverage changes

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