Check transforming items for consistency wrt cables

[moxian]

Summary

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Purpose of change

Check that transformed-into items have plug_in action when the transformed-from item does, and complain if that's not the case.

Prevents #78535-like issues from reoccuring

Describe the solution

Add the aforementioned check to iuse_transform::finalize

Describe alternatives you've considered

Make transform logic smarter and do (handwave) something meaningful when a plugged-in item transforms into unpluggable one. But i don't have a use case to support, and that's more work so maybe some other day.

Testing

Compiled, loaded game, no errors.
Reverted #78537 loaded game, got error, as explected.
Changed the transform target of a cell phone into "asdfsdfsfda", loaded the game, got a bunch of errors as expected, and no segfaults

Additional context

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