Use node_id for duplicate connection resolution - 2.2

[heifner]

Change Description

• Fix duplicate connection check by using node_id instead of p2p_address.
• New net_version dup_node_id_goaway created for this PR.
• Issue introduced by: use p2p address for duplicate connection resolution #10006
• Use node_id for duplicate connection resolution 📦 #10786

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