refactor: webpack babel 的 exclude 配置逻辑优化 & scripts 正则匹配 mjs/mts

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这个 PR 做了什么? (简要描述所做更改)

1. webpack babel 的 exclude 配置逻辑优化
2. scripts 正则匹配 mjs/mts

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• 错误修复(Bugfix) issue: fix #
• 新功能(Feature)
• 代码重构(Refactor)
• TypeScript 类型定义修改(Typings)
• 文档修改(Docs)
• 代码风格更新(Code style update)
• 其他，请描述(Other, please describe):

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 75.00000% with 2 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 56.51%. Comparing base (936c61e) to head (5719e60).
Report is 4 commits behind head on 3.x.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
packages/taro-webpack-runner/src/utils/chain.ts	71.42%	2 Missing ⚠️

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Flag	Coverage Δ
taro-cli	49.21% <ø> (-25.79%)	⬇️
taro-runner	54.01% <71.42%> (+<0.01%)	⬆️
taro-runtime	79.39% <ø> (ø)
taro-web	40.48% <ø> (ø)

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Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
packages/taro-helper/src/constants.ts	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
packages/taro-webpack-runner/src/utils/chain.ts	77.96% <71.42%> (+0.74%)	⬆️

... and 12 files with indirect coverage changes