Fix OpenMP on MacOS

[smessmer]

Tested on Github Action macos-12, macos-13 (x64) and macos-14 (arm64) runners, they aren't able to find OpenMP. I don't know why the setting of CMAKE_PREFIX_PATH is not enough, but it does not work as intended. This change reinstates the code from the old cryptopp-cmake project, and this works correctly in all of the Github Action macos runners.

This change is needed for cryfs to upgrade from the previous cryptopp-cmake scripts to the this modern-cmake one.

[smessmer]

ok this is weird, the macos CI jobs here fail and say they can't find OpenMP. However, my change is written in a way that it shouldn't be able to make things worse. Previously, there was just a find_package and that find_package is still there, and this PR only changes behavior if that find_package doesn't find the package...So if the CI job found OpenMP before using this find_package call, it should still find it.

[abdes]

Is there a way you could put all of the related things to OpenMP in a separate CMake module that we call with a single line of code? A custom FindOpenMP.cmake

[Vollstrecker]

Was there a point when this worked in the past, or did it never work and we just didn't notice? I'm sure if this never worked, there is something to fix in the find_openmp module.