Sync spring init actions to prevent parallel init

[AlbumenJ]

What is the purpose of the change

Status: Dubbo not inited. Early trigger Dubbo invoke during Spring Application Listener init.

main thread: invoke Dubbo Reference Bean -> referenceConfig not prepared ->                                  success get not well prepared referenceConfig -> invoke -> throw config not found exception
other thread: invoke Dubbo Reference Bean -> referenceConfig not prepared -> trigger spring config listener config load -> still getting config

stack=java.lang.IllegalStateException: No application config found or it's not a valid config! Please add <dubbo:application name="..." /> to your spring config.
  at org.apache.dubbo.config.utils.ConfigValidationUtils.validateApplicationConfig(ConfigValidationUtils.java:494)
  at org.apache.dubbo.config.utils.DefaultConfigValidator.validate(DefaultConfigValidator.java:48)
  at org.apache.dubbo.config.context.AbstractConfigManager.checkDefaultAndValidateConfigs(AbstractConfigManager.java:620)
  at org.apache.dubbo.config.context.ConfigManager.checkConfigs(ConfigManager.java:302)
  at org.apache.dubbo.config.context.ConfigManager.loadConfigs(ConfigManager.java:282)
  at org.apache.dubbo.config.deploy.DefaultApplicationDeployer.loadApplicationConfigs(DefaultApplicationDeployer.java:255)
  at org.apache.dubbo.config.deploy.DefaultApplicationDeployer.initialize(DefaultApplicationDeployer.java:222)
  at org.apache.dubbo.config.deploy.DefaultModuleDeployer.prepare(DefaultModuleDeployer.java:638)
  at org.apache.dubbo.config.ReferenceConfig.get(ReferenceConfig.java:232)
  at org.apache.dubbo.config.ReferenceConfigBase.get(ReferenceConfigBase.java:395)
  at org.apache.dubbo.config.spring.ReferenceBean.getCallProxy(ReferenceBean.java:446)
  at org.apache.dubbo.config.spring.ReferenceBean.access$100(ReferenceBean.java:108)
  at org.apache.dubbo.config.spring.ReferenceBean$DubboReferenceLazyInitTargetSource.getTarget(ReferenceBean.java:453)
  at org.apache.dubbo.config.spring.util.LazyTargetInvocationHandler.invoke(LazyTargetInvocationHandler.java:50)

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Quality Gate passed

Issues
2 New issues
0 Accepted issues

Measures
0 Security Hotspots
0.0% Coverage on New Code
0.0% Duplication on New Code

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[AlbumenJ]

@CrazyHZM PTAL

[CrazyHZM]

I think the user‘s listener should have a lower priority than Dubbo. Ensure that the Dubbo status is initialized.