[3.0] Fix concurrency issues of service discovery

[chickenlj]

• Possible race conditions
  • ReferenceConfigs have the same interface but different groups or versions subscribe/subscribe at the same time.
  • Different interfaces that map to the same app list subscribe/unsubscribe at the same time.
• Mapping initialization and change notification
  • Using file-based mapping cache to replace the one-only memory cache, most of the time, memory usage won't increase too much.
  • Load mapping from the cache to accelerate starting process
  • Async change notification to re-subscribe if mapping from remote was found changed.
• Multiple subscription support
  • Make sure Consumer can find providers registered with multiple protocols through app-level address model

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Merging #9684 (d90aa19) into 3.0 (adea101) will decrease coverage by 0.67%.
The diff coverage is 75.62%.

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- Coverage     65.73%   65.06%   -0.68%     
+ Complexity      297      293       -4     
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  Files          1192     1193       +1     
  Lines         52154    52369     +215     
  Branches       7918     7930      +12     
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- Hits          34285    34075     -210     
- Misses        14186    14570     +384     
- Partials       3683     3724      +41     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...ubbo/metadata/store/nacos/NacosMetadataReport.java	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
...java/org/apache/dubbo/registry/NotifyListener.java	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
.../apache/dubbo/registry/client/ServiceInstance.java	20.00% <ø> (ø)
...e/dubbo/registry/integration/DynamicDirectory.java	60.00% <0.00%> (-3.31%)	⬇️
.../registry/multicast/MulticastServiceDiscovery.java	66.66% <ø> (ø)
...src/main/java/org/apache/dubbo/rpc/RpcContext.java	39.18% <0.00%> (ø)
...n/java/org/apache/dubbo/rpc/RpcServiceContext.java	61.26% <0.00%> (-0.81%)	⬇️
...org/apache/dubbo/metadata/MappingCacheManager.java	52.17% <52.17%> (ø)
...ache/dubbo/registry/client/InstanceAddressURL.java	54.42% <55.26%> (+3.26%)	⬆️
...n/java/org/apache/dubbo/metadata/MetadataInfo.java	62.83% <65.21%> (-3.83%)	⬇️
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