refactor(build): remove 'rdsn' from build and test commands

[acelyc111]

#1053

This patch is planning to remove 'rdsn' from build and test commands. After doing this, the CI will last longer, so I have to the following work to reduce the effect:

1. Refactor Cpp CI yaml:
   a. shorten names, it will be easier to read on Web
   b. split 'test' into 'build' and 'test'
   c. remove some self-hosted runner configs
   d. use actions/cache@v3 to speed up build staged
   e. remove changes check on rdsn directory
   f. make -j parameter with N cpus instead N/2
   g. use actions/upload-artifact@v3 and actions/download-artifact@v3 to pass test artifacts from build job to test job
   h. use matrix to run test parallely to reduce test last time, and make re-run cheaper (and also add some missing test cases in run.sh)
   i. remove LSAN since it's included by ASAN
2. Cmake changes:
   a. unify rdsn and pegasus cmakelists
   b. add ccache detection and configs in cmake
   c. adjust includes and links
   d. make pegasus_geo_test can be run by shell which is the unify way
   e. remove src/rdsn/CMakeLists.txt
3. shell scripts update
   a. remove 'rdsn' from run.sh for both build and test functions
   b. re-org thrift generating and git_commit.h generating
   c. use different build dirs for different build types, then you can switch build types with lower cost (NOTE: you have to remove src/builder directory after this patch)
   d. make wget more robust (by wget -T 10 -t 5) Pegasus unit test failed for download hadoop failed #1095
4. unit test fixes after this patch because it will run more tests
   a. move templates to header files (src/rdsn/src/meta/meta_service.h)
   b. other cmake and cpp files

[hycdong]

LGTM~

Besides, I have following suggestions:

1. I recommend checking if pack_server.sh, pack_client.sh, pack_tools.sh can work well. In our previous build refactor, those script may have problems after build refactor.
2. I recommend refactoring pegasus_function_test in future. Restrict with test time, some long-time function tests are not running if on_travis is set as true.

[acelyc111]

• I recommend checking if pack_server.sh, pack_client.sh, pack_tools.sh can work well. In our previous build refactor, those script may have problems after build refactor.
• I recommend refactoring pegasus_function_test in future. Restrict with test time, some long-time function tests are not running if on_travis is set as true.

1. Thanks for your reminding, I missed that, pack_server.sh and pack_tools.sh has been added back, pack_client.sh is not running before so I didn't add it this time, I will do it in another patch.
2. Yes, I'll do it in another patch.