[1.9.x] [MRESOLVER-571] Import o.e.aether packages with the exact same version

[HannesWell]

The documentation states that only maven-resolver artifacts of the exact same version should be used together.

With this change all org.eclipse.aether* packages are now imported with a strict version range of
'org.eclipse.aether*;version="[@version,@version]"'
Fixes https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/MRESOLVER-571

This PR currently also containes the changes planned for #505.
If there is agreement for this change, I'll forward port it to the master/2.x.

[HannesWell]

Turned it into a draft for now since it contains the changes for #505. Just to ensure it is not accidentally submitted with that.

[gnodet]

@HannesWell can you double check the merge ?

[HannesWell]

@HannesWell can you double check the merge ?

I double checked the merge, respectively rebased this branch on top of the current maven-resolver-1.9.x branch.
Then I checked the result of the combined Manifest changes applied recently and all looks as expected, except for the application of the -noimport directive done in this PR. As stated in BND doc for the Export-Package header that directive has to be applied "on the export instruction". I fixed that for this PR already and provide a follow-up on #520 for the master branch.

For me this is now ready. Thanks for all of your reviews.