feat(ec2): instance support passing IAM instance profile (#32073)

### Issue # (if applicable)

Closes #8348 

### Reason for this change


- Use only 1 IAM instance profile for multiple instances
- Passing role create too many instance profile

### Description of changes


- `ec2.Instance` support `instanceProfile` param

### Description of how you validated changes


- unit test
- integ test

### Checklist
- [x] My code adheres to the [CONTRIBUTING GUIDE](https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/blob/main/CONTRIBUTING.md) and [DESIGN GUIDELINES](https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/blob/main/docs/DESIGN_GUIDELINES.md)

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