Showcase startable cluster via docs and examples

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Description

This PR updates the README and the examples to showcase that a ZeebeCluster, which implements Startable, can be managed by the Testcontainers Junit 5 extension. Simply annotate your test with @Testcontainers, your cluster with @Container, and you're good to go.

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