…addlePaddle#35863)

* Optimization of pool2d grad, first commit.

* remove useless print codes

* refine codes

* refine codes

* seal more operation into template specialization

* fix template struct error in MaxPool2dGrad.

* Fix header including error

* refine code with comment

* Seal the param-preparation codes into function for common use.

* Seal the param-preparation codes into function for common use.

* Seal the param-preparation into funciton and make it common for other kernels

* polish code and erase useless template speicalization

* Rerun triger

* rerun trigger

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* Create stateful OneDNNAXPYHandler object.

This makes it possible to call it multiple times without recreating the
oneDNN primitives every time.

* Prepare SGDOpKernel to reuse its implementation from OneDNN kernel.

* OneDNN SGD kernel.

* Update call to use new OneDNNAXPYHandler object api.

* Setup seed in proper place.

* Enable OneDNN kernel only for single case.

* For dense param and sparse grad.

* Small refactor.

* Enable oneDNN by op attr or by cmd line flag.

* Use int64_t type for number of elements.

* Support dense param and grad from OneDNN kernel.

* Enable SGD OneDNN kernel when use MP BF16 optimizer.

* Force non-copyable/movable OneDNNAXPYHandler.

* Reuse OneDNNAXPYHandler for spare tensors in SUM op.

* Fix SFINAE rules.

* Remove recording event inside AXPY.

* Get rid of internal primitive caching.

* Stop use PP cache mechanims to store mem and primitive obj.
* Handler obj store and reuse needed desc & prim

* Do not derive from MKLDNNHandlerT

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