release-23.1: base, licenseccl: Revise resolution strategy for LicenseTTL

[angles-n-daemons]

Backport 1/1 commits from #129052.

/cc @cockroachdb/release

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Release justification: required telemetry changes for core modifications

Previously, for resolving the cluster's license expiry we relied on a metric
whose value was regularly ticked down by an async task. This change seeks to
only the resolve value at read time by reading directly from the cluster
settings when its requested.

Release note: None

Fixes: CRDB-40592
Epic: CRDB-8035

[blathers-crl]

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[cockroach-teamcity]

This change is 

[dhartunian]

This snippet can be omitted since this old version doesn't surface license alerts in the UI. I might add them back in when we make further changes.

[dhartunian]

Any by "can" I mean "has to be" because it's a compiler error :)