CBG-4410 restructure multi actor non conflict tests

[torcolvin]

Fix the multi actor tests to perform a pairwise operation for update, delete, resurrect, so one peer does the first part of the operation and the second peer will do the second part.

The resurrection tests are skipped due to an issue with rosmar XDCR. The creation tests are removed since creation is fundamentally a single actor operation.

Pre-review checklist

• Removed debug logging (fmt.Print, log.Print, ...)
• Logging sensitive data? Make sure it's tagged (e.g. base.UD(docID), base.MD(dbName))
• Updated relevant information in the API specifications (such as endpoint descriptions, schemas, ...) in docs/api

Dependencies (if applicable)

• Link upstream PRs