[main] Update dependencies from dotnet/efcore, dotnet/runtime (#55339)

[main] Update dependencies from dotnet/efcore, dotnet/runtime


 - Fix build break

 - More break fixes

 - More break fixes

 - Try fixing frameworkRef

 - Revert "Try fixing frameworkRef"

This reverts commit 3472997.

 - Revert "Revert "Try fixing frameworkRef""

This reverts commit 80e11cd.

 - Try fixing condition

 - Merge remote-tracking branch 'upstream/darc-main-1fe41fe1-d5d1-494c-8d90-7c97802c275f' into darc-main-1fe41fe1-d5d1-494c-8d90-7c97802c275f

 - Try hacky workaround

 - Merge branch 'main' into darc-main-1fe41fe1-d5d1-494c-8d90-7c97802c275f

 - fix reflection

 - readonly

 - remove cache for now