fix: point preloads to native_modules

[PascalPixel]

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Summarize your changes:

• When using the webpack+typescript template if you import any packages that require native_modules the webpack-asset-relocator will inject __dirname into the output files in both development and production
• Example of package use in preload that causes this issue in the webpack+typescript template; import { auto } from "darkreader";
• The browser console then reports __dirname is undefined and preload doesn't run
• Some users have removed webpack-asset-relocator from their webpack configuration to get around this, but without native_modules the BrowserView becomes sluggish
• This PR applies the patch used for the renderer config to the preloads
• The tests are updated and pass locally, but I am not sure if this is the effect maintainers want to happen, especially considering there are explicit tests to ensure this isn't applied

[erickzhao]

I think the logic for this fix was included in #3101, will close this PR for now.