JPMS fixs, change JPMS package for Gestalt Kotlin

What's Changed

• Feat/java modules by @credmond-git in #104

• fix: changed kotlin jpms to module org.github.gestalt.config.kotlin to align with kotlin docs https://kotlinlang.org/docs/gradle-configure-project.html#configure-with-java-modules-jpms-enabled

• fix: expose dependencies as api instead of implementations so you dont need to include sub-dependencies.

• fix: made most jpms dependencies transitive.

• feat: update to gradle 8.3

• feat: add git sample.

• update dependencies.

Full Changelog: v0.22.1...v0.23.0