Makes file matching / expanding much faster (in some situations twice as fast)

[cspotcode]

This PR avoids lots of unnecessary or duplicate filesystem operations within grunt's file.expand, file.expandMapping, and task.normalizeMultiTaskFiles. It makes file matching much faster without adding much complexity to grunt.

The first change is to persist glob's internal caches across multiple calls to glob.sync. This is a documented feature of the glob library: https://github.com/isaacs/node-glob#options
(see also: isaacs/node-glob#306)

The second change is to avoid all fs calls for exclusion patterns beginning with a "!". These patterns only exclude filepaths that have already been discovered by an inclusion pattern, so they never need to do any filesystem calls of their own.

I've created a demonstration repository that shows how in certain situations these changes make file matching twice as fast. On my laptop, a Macbook with SSD, these improvements reduce glob matching from 2.2 to 1.1 seconds.
https://github.com/cspotcode/grunt-file-matching-performance

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