[deps] update compel to fix black output with weight=0; also use new downweighting algorithm

[damian0815]

Update compel to 1.0.0.

This fixes #2832.

It also changes the way downweighting is applied. In particular, downweighting should now be much better and more controllable.

From the compel changelog:

Downweighting now works by applying an attention mask to remove the downweighted tokens, rather than literally removing them from the sequence. This behaviour is the default, but the old behaviour can be re-enabled by passing downweight_mode=DownweightMode.REMOVE on init of the Compel instance.

Formerly, downweighting a token worked by both multiplying the weighting of the token's embedding, and doing an inverse-weighted blend with a copy of the token sequence that had the downweighted tokens removed. The intuition is that as weight approaches zero, the tokens being downweighted should be actually removed from the sequence. However, removing the tokens resulted in the positioning of all downstream tokens becoming messed up. The blend ended up blending a lot more than just the tokens in question.

As of v1.0.0, taking advice from @keturn and @bonlime (damian0815/compel#7) the procedure is by default different. Downweighting still involves a blend but what is blended is a version of the token sequence with the downweighted tokens masked out, rather than removed. This correctly preserves positioning embeddings of the other tokens.