reinstate reactive mariadb tests using r2dbc-mysql

[mshima]

• switch mariadb to use r2dbc-mysql (again) commit a768dd3
• add prodDatabaseDriver to application

Fixes #20363.

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[mshima]

Thanks @DanielFran