[New] hook-use-state: add allowDestructuredState option

[metreniuk]

This PR fixes #3443 by adding a new option to the rule.
I want to be sure that I'm on the right path, so I could add fixes later.

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[ljharb]

When viewing the diff ignoring whitespace changes, it looks great - nice and simple. Thanks!

[ljharb]

I'm going to hold off on landing semver-minor things until after I've cut the next patch release, but hopefully that won't be long.