test: make snapshot comparison more flexible

PR-URL: nodejs#54375
Reviewed-By: Antoine du Hamel <duhamelantoine1995@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>

test/fixtures/errors/promise_unhandled_warn_with_error.snapshot

@@ -8,5 +8,5 @@
     at *
     at *
     at *
-(Use `node --trace-warnings ...` to show where the warning was created)
+(Use `* --trace-warnings ...` to show where the warning was created)
 (node:*) UnhandledPromiseRejectionWarning: Unhandled promise rejection. This error originated either by throwing inside of an async function without a catch block, or by rejecting a promise which was not handled with .catch(). To terminate the node process on unhandled promise rejection, use the CLI flag `--unhandled-rejections=strict` (see https:*nodejs.org*api*cli.html#cli_unhandled_rejections_mode). (rejection id: 1)

test/fixtures/errors/throw_error_with_getter_throw.snapshot

@@ -3,6 +3,6 @@
 throw {  * eslint-disable-line no-throw-literal
 ^
 [object Object]
-(Use `node --trace-uncaught ...` to show where the exception was thrown)
+(Use `* --trace-uncaught ...` to show where the exception was thrown)
 
 Node.js *

test/fixtures/errors/throw_null.snapshot

@@ -3,6 +3,6 @@
 throw null;
 ^
 null
-(Use `node --trace-uncaught ...` to show where the exception was thrown)
+(Use `* --trace-uncaught ...` to show where the exception was thrown)
 
 Node.js *

test/fixtures/errors/throw_undefined.snapshot

@@ -3,6 +3,6 @@
 throw undefined;
 ^
 undefined
-(Use `node --trace-uncaught ...` to show where the exception was thrown)
+(Use `* --trace-uncaught ...` to show where the exception was thrown)
 
 Node.js *

test/parallel/test-node-output-errors.mjs

@@ -3,6 +3,7 @@ import * as fixtures from '../common/fixtures.mjs';
 import * as snapshot from '../common/assertSnapshot.js';
 import * as os from 'node:os';
 import { describe, it } from 'node:test';
+import { basename } from 'node:path';
 import { pathToFileURL } from 'node:url';
 
 const skipForceColors =
@@ -20,13 +21,15 @@ function replaceForceColorsStackTrace(str) {
 
 describe('errors output', { concurrency: !process.env.TEST_PARALLEL }, () => {
   function normalize(str) {
+    const baseName = basename(process.argv0 || 'node', '.exe');
     return str.replaceAll(snapshot.replaceWindowsPaths(process.cwd()), '')
       .replaceAll(pathToFileURL(process.cwd()).pathname, '')
       .replaceAll('//', '*')
       .replaceAll(/\/(\w)/g, '*$1')
       .replaceAll('*test*', '*')
       .replaceAll('*fixtures*errors*', '*')
-      .replaceAll('file:**', 'file:*/');
+      .replaceAll('file:**', 'file:*/')
+      .replaceAll(`${baseName} --`, '* --');
   }
 
   function normalizeNoNumbers(str) {