Fix nodeport repair for ESIPP services

[nicksardo]

What this PR does / why we need it:
The nodeport allocation repair controller does not scrape the Service.Spec.healthCheckNodePort value and would remove the allocation from memory and etcd after 10 minutes. This opens the door for other services to use the same nodeport and cause collisions.

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:
Fixes #54885

Release note:

Fix issue of colliding nodePorts when the cluster has services with externalTrafficPolicy=Local

[nicksardo]

/cc @bowei

[nicksardo]

/assign wojtek-t
/uncc caesarxuchao

[bowei]

/cc @MrHohn
/lgtm

[wojtek-t]

/lgtm

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After upgrading to a version with this fix, all services with overlapping nodeports will see events such as

Events:
  Type     Reason                Age              From                             Message
  ----     ------                ----             ----                             -------
  Warning  PortAlreadyAllocated  2m (x3 over 5m)  portallocator-repair-controller  Port 32457 was assigned to multiple services; please recreate service