tk: Backport fix for ttk::ThemeChanged error

[chrstphrchvz]

Description

This fixes a race condition which is difficult to reproduce, and an annoyance mainly to Tkinter users (e.g. python/cpython#71383)

Type(s)

• bugfix

Tested on

macOS 12.6.5
Xcode 14.2

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[macportsbot]

Notifying maintainers:
@MarcusCalhoun-Lopez for port tk.