Update command line parameters to be in a consistent style and specify which override parameter can be used to override an error in the error message.

[wandyezj]

Command line parameters should be in a consistent style.

--noVerify should be in the same style as --no-yarn.

Existing parameters should continue to work for compatibility; these inconsistent parameters can be removed from --help.

Overridable error messages should contain the command line option that can be used to override the error if available.

Error message:

Extensions using proposed API (enabledApiProposals: [...]) can't be published to the Marketplace

Should contain the command used to override --noVerify, same for other overridable messages