deps: upgrade to c-ares v1.14.0

[rvagg]

Changelog over 1.13.0 which we're currently bundling:

• Fix patch for CVE-2017-1000381 to not be overly aggressive.
• win32: Preserve DNS server order returned by Windows when sorting and exclude
  DNS servers in legacy subnets.
• win32: Support most recent Visual Studio 2017
• gethostbyaddr should fail with ECANCELLED not ENOTFOUND when ares_cancel
  is called.
• win32: Exclude legacy ipv6 subnets
• android: Applications compiled for Oreo can no longer use
  __system_property_get and must use Java calls to retrieve DNS servers.
• win32: Force use of ANSI functions
• CMake minimum version is now 3.1
• ares_gethostbyname.3: fix callback status values
• docs: Document WSAStartup requirement
• Fix a typo in init_by_resolv_conf
• Android JNI code leaks local references in some cases
• Force using the ANSI versions of WinAPI functions

The most important changes have already been included via

• 50e580d deps: cherry-pick 0ef4a0c64b6 from c-ares upstream (gethostbyaddr should fail with ECANCELLED)
• 9a0631d deps: cherry-pick 18ea996 from c-ares upstream (patch for CVE-2017-1000381)

Not much else of significance in here but there is improved Android support so the Android Node builders should be happy about that.

[BridgeAR]

Rubberstamp LGTM (just cross checked the original commits in c-ares with this PR).

[jasnell]

CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/14292/

[BridgeAR]

Landed in 4a0dff7...2b6bb9f 🎉

[MylesBorins]

Should this be backported to v8.x-staging? If yes please follow the guide and raise a backport PR, if not let me know or add the dont-land-on label.

[kelp404]

Did you miss ares_android.h?
I can't buid node for android arm 64.

NDK: r17b
node: v10.9.0

  cc '-D_DARWIN_USE_64_BIT_INODE=1' '-D_LARGEFILE_SOURCE' '-D_FILE_OFFSET_BITS=64' '-D_GNU_SOURCE' '-DCARES_STATICLIB' '-DHAVE_CONFIG_H' '-D_GLIBCXX_USE_C99_MATH' -I../deps/cares/include -I../deps/cares/src -I../deps/cares/config/android  -Wall -Wextra -Wno-unused-parameter -g -pedantic -Wall -Wextra -Wno-unused-parameter -O3 -fno-omit-frame-pointer -fPIE  -MMD -MF /root/node-in-android/out/Release/.deps//root/node-in-android/out/Release/obj.target/cares/deps/cares/src/ares__close_sockets.o.d.raw  -D__ANDROID_API__=21 -c -o /root/node-in-android/out/Release/obj.target/cares/deps/cares/src/ares__close_sockets.o ../deps/cares/src/ares__close_sockets.c
In file included from ../deps/cares/src/ares_setup.h:32:0,
                 from ../deps/cares/src/ares_cancel.c:15:
../deps/cares/config/android/ares_config.h:62:1: warning: C++ style comments are not allowed in ISO C90
 //#define HAVE_ARPA_NAMESER_COMPAT_H 1
 ^
../deps/cares/config/android/ares_config.h:62:1: warning: (this will be reported only once per input file)
In file included from ../deps/cares/src/ares_setup.h:32:0,
                 from ../deps/cares/src/ares__close_sockets.c:17:
../deps/cares/config/android/ares_config.h:62:1: warning: C++ style comments are not allowed in ISO C90
 //#define HAVE_ARPA_NAMESER_COMPAT_H 1
 ^
../deps/cares/config/android/ares_config.h:62:1: warning: (this will be reported only once per input file)
In file included from ../deps/cares/src/ares_setup.h:32:0,
                 from ../deps/cares/src/ares_android.c:19:
../deps/cares/config/android/ares_config.h:62:1: warning: C++ style comments are not allowed in ISO C90
 //#define HAVE_ARPA_NAMESER_COMPAT_H 1
 ^
../deps/cares/config/android/ares_config.h:62:1: warning: (this will be reported only once per input file)
../deps/cares/src/ares_android.c:21:26: fatal error: ares_android.h: No such file or directory
 #include "ares_android.h"
                          ^
compilation terminated.
make[1]: *** [/root/node-in-android/out/Release/obj.target/cares/deps/cares/src/ares_android.o] Error 1
make[1]: *** Waiting for unfinished jobs....
make[1]: Leaving directory `/root/node-in-android/out'
make: *** [node] Error 2
[BUILD] Build failed. See '../node-android-21-arm64/build.log'