src,build: add no user defined deduction guides of CTAD check

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To our secondary C++ style guide:

Do not use CTAD with a given template unless the template's maintainers have opted into supporting use of CTAD by providing at least one explicit deduction guide (all templates in the std namespace are also presumed to have opted in). This should be enforced with a compiler warning if available.

Ref: https://google.github.io/styleguide/cppguide.html#CTAD

To use CTAD with a template, it must be defined with at least one deduction guide (std templates are defined with guides). Enforcing this rule with compiler checks.

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 0% with 1 line in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 88.01%. Comparing base (d09458f) to head (8d59040).
Report is 49 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/quic/session.cc	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

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Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/quic/session.cc	5.35% <0.00%> (ø)

... and 31 files with indirect coverage changes

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