deps updates

[wraithgar]

Lots of deps updates, see individual commits.

[npm-robot]

no statistically significant performance changes detected

timing results

app-large	clean	lock-only	cache-only	cache-only peer-deps	modules-only	no-lock	no-cache	no-modules	no-clean	no-clean audit
npm@8	42.752 ±0.57	27.266 ±0.24	15.904 ±0.10	17.754 ±0.47	2.729 ±0.01	2.687 ±0.07	2.220 ±0.03	10.344 ±0.21	2.191 ±0.00	3.048 ±0.05
#4562	44.700 ±0.65	27.027 ±0.18	15.584 ±0.33	18.499 ±0.72	2.675 ±0.21	2.741 ±0.02	2.148 ±0.07	10.318 ±0.08	2.236 ±0.05	3.406 ±0.36

app-medium	clean	lock-only	cache-only	cache-only peer-deps	modules-only	no-lock	no-cache	no-modules	no-clean	no-clean audit
npm@8	32.310 ±0.38	20.660 ±0.11	11.573 ±0.34	12.748 ±0.04	2.388 ±0.01	2.470 ±0.01	2.196 ±0.02	7.727 ±0.13	2.057 ±0.01	2.799 ±0.01
#4562	32.995 ±0.15	21.493 ±0.32	12.145 ±0.19	12.876 ±0.36	2.467 ±0.02	2.299 ±0.06	2.228 ±0.01	7.971 ±0.23	2.022 ±0.02	2.879 ±0.11