fix: revert DepsQueue to re-sort on pop()

[lukekarrys]

A partial revert of #7124 and d3f1845.

Fixes #7491

[lukekarrys]

Trying to come up with a test for this in build-ideal-tree but am having trouble taking the full package-lock.json from #7491 and reducing it to only the deps required to hit the infinite loop. The other option is a smoke-test, but I'd rather not make a full smoke-test for this.

Once I do have a test, I might take another shot at reverting the code to how it was previously, which was optimized to not re-sort the depsQueue on each pop.