fix!: honors ignoreScripts option to prevent prepare lifecycle script

[reggi]

Adds ignoreScript option support to prevent execution of prepare lifecycle script.

from: npm/cli#7211
part of: npm/statusboard#898

Currently the tests don't run locally for some reason, i'm thinking because they spin up a https://localhost server. It runs in docker.

I used this to isolate the build and test locally:

docker-node() { docker run --rm -v "$(pwd)":/app -w /app -e "TAP_SNAPSHOT=$TAP_SNAPSHOT" node:22 "$@"; }

docker-node npm test
docker-node npm test -- ./test/dir.js