*: update tikv/client-go and fix stale read metrics in grafana

[crazycs520]

What problem does this PR solve?

cherry-pick #45340

Issue Number: close #45339

related PR: tikv/client-go#889

Problem Summary:

What is changed and how it works?

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
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Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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Codecov Report

Merging #45505 (5cf47ce) into master (f6be155) will decrease coverage by 0.0198%.
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[hawkingrei]

/retest

[zimulala]

LGTM

[crazycs520]

@you06 @cfzjywxk PTAL

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/retest

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-7.1: #45535.