br: add more retry strategy (s3.ReadFile: body reader / pushBackup: backoffer) (#50541)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #50541

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #49942

Problem Summary:
backup/restore failed for external storage error

What changed and how does it work?

add more retry strategy (s3.ReadFile: body reader / pushBackup: backoffer)

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• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

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• Changes MySQL compatibility

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Timeline:

• 2024-02-04 10:27:34.997002162 +0000 UTC m=+93380.563772052: ☑️ agreed by 3pointer.
• 2024-02-04 10:52:47.259078779 +0000 UTC m=+94892.825848669: ☑️ agreed by Leavrth.

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