operator: make an infinity retry for connecting to store (#52177)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #52177

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #52175

Problem Summary:
See the issue.

What changed and how does it work?

This make an infinity retry for the connecting to store phase.
The retry of waiting apply phase has been kept because it seems waiting apply isn't always lasting for minutes.

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Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

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• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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[YuJuncen]

should be picked in #53027