update proxy of release-6.1 to raftstore-proxy-6.1

[CalvinNeo]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #5646

Problem Summary:
Update proxy on 6.1 to take advantage of fix from pingcap/tidb-engine-ext#135

What is changed and how it works?

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

None

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[CalvinNeo]

/cc @flowbehappy @JaySon-Huang @lidezhu

[JaySon-Huang]

lgtm

You may create a standalone issue and describe the details of fixed probelm for getting a triage approval to release-6.1 branch

[CalvinNeo]

lgtm

You may create a standalone issue and describe the details of fixed probelm for getting a triage approval to release-6.1 branch

Fixed

[CalvinNeo]

/merge

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Coverage for changed files

no c/c++ source change detected

Coverage summary

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full coverage report (for internal network access only)

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/run-all-tests

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Coverage for changed files

no c/c++ source change detected

Coverage summary

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full coverage report (for internal network access only)